I have a very unique relationship with my children, and very close friends. But with my family, acquaintances,in-laws, and neighbors I dont.
I am not sure they need, or want to hear the daily problems that I am having in my life.
For example: If my sister Michelle is jealous that I was spending time with my sister Christina I wouldnt tell Christina that she was jealous. (that would just hurt her)
What I would do is try to try to spend a little more time with Michelle.
That way Michelle gets some of my time, and Christna gets some of my time. But Christina doesn't have to feel like a horrible person for no reason. (and I am not an idiot)
I guess what I am trying to explain to YOU ( aka idiot) is even though you have never stopped and had a thought before you did or said something: it is time to begin.....
YOU ARE WELCOME!!
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